Get out of the Friend Zone and into the Romantic Zone
There have been numerous Hollywood movies that have made fun of men that have been stuck in the friend zone. For some reason, it bears some scary weight to men. It is literally one of the dreaded fictional places that so many men fear and never want to reach. The truth is, if you reached the friend zone with a lady that you particularly like, it does not mean you have to be stuck there forever. There is actually a proven way to step out of the friend zone and into the romantic zone. So, men, stop acting so scarred and let’s step your game up. Here is the proven way to step from friends to romance.
- The Question to Answer First
Before you can even get to this point – you really need to establish something. Are you really in the friendzone? You don’t want to assume that you are or anything like that. It’s easy to tell if she looks at you more as a friend than anything. Once you realize that she does see you as a friend, you can begin making the following adjustments or steps.
- What is She Attracted To
The first thing that you can do towards making the step from friend zone to romance zone is to figure out what she is attracted to. What I mean is, what characteristics does she prefer? What does she enjoy? From figuring out what she is attracted to, you can begin to make steps in the right direction and find fun things to do together that you know she will like. One mistake “Nice guys” do, is that they agree with everything the woman likes. It is great to have similar interests, but most likely she will actually want a guy who is committed to what he likes, and can show her a whole new world of fun things!
- Separate Yourself From Friends
Many times, women will place men in the friendzone because there are many other people involved. You can’t blame her for placing you there if you never took the time to be with her alone. If you have never taken time to get to know her alone, can you really blame her? I mean, it sounds like a regular friend to me. She may even think you friend zoned her!
- The Feelings Part
Now, I know so many men that run away from the idea of feelings. The truth is, if you are serious about her and want to be in a dedicated relationship, you need to try. After getting her one-on-one, it’s important to make her see you as a sexual guy, that she could be interested in. She doesn’t need a nice brotherly figure, rather she needs a man that will stimulate her interests. Talk about sexual experiences you have had. You don’t want to over due this though, but you do want to put that image in her head. Next, talk about a girl who is interested in you. Girls are more likely to want something that other girls want. Hey, why do you think Chanel and Prada are so popular? Right here, we are shattering the friendzone aspect and making her see you as someone she could be interested in physically and emotionally.
- The Big Date
The last step towards stepping outside of the friend zone is making your move. but don’t go in to soon! Look for her cues. Does she seem more nervous around you? Is she wanting your attention more? If so, continue to play a little hard to get, but eventually you will want to take her on a real date. If you both hung out with friends at different locations, you want to make this date special and different. Get creative with this! You don’t need to do a classic dinner date because that may be to pressure filled. Rather find something enjoyable you both like that you can do together. Preferably something that will allow you to get a little physical. There are so many different places you could take her in your city. Check out my FREE Date Guide for more information!
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