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Cher Gopman, The NYC WING WOMAN is currently offering exclusive in-person coaching to qualifying individuals.

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Cher Gopman, the NYC WingWoman has been featured on news channels and media outlets from NYC to Los Angels. Her knowledge is highly sought after and if you’re reading this; she’s still booking clients for one on one date coaching in the NYC area .


If you’re looking for help to ‘get you back out there’ on the dating scene, or advice on how to start dating seriously for the first time, then you’ve come to the right place.
Everybody needs somebody to love – and I want to arm you with the tools you need to find yours.

Look, I get it, if you’re not confident about the whole dating ‘thing’, then it can seem hugely daunting. But, I’m here to tell you it doesn’t have to be. I specialize in helping men aged 21 – 50 to understand women, connect with them confidently and authentically, and go on to build long-term, happy relationships..


“My dating life is a disaster”

“People say I’m a nice guy, but I never get a 2nd date”

“I want to meet more women, but I don’t know how”

“I get tongue-tied and nervous around women”

“It’s been so long since I’ve been on a date, I’m not sure what to do!”

It’s time to stop worrying about dating. I understand, dating can be pretty scary, it leaves you with lots of questions that you don’t have answers for. Luckily, I can tell you exactly what women want and can teach you to become a way better ‘dater’ than you ever thought was possible.

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I know you’re not a sleazy guy, you’re looking for love and companionship. The trouble is, the vast majority of dating coaches are men who teach you cheap pick-up tricks that help you score ‘one night stands’ rather than find your perfect partner. So, the fact that I’m a female in a man’s world is both my unfair advantage AND yours.

I can help you look at dating from the women’s perspective and help you develop authentic dating skills that’ll help you become a massive success with woman. These skills will stand you apart from every other clueless guy in the club and give you the confidence to approach any woman you want. The key to finding the woman of your dreams is understanding how they think, what they want, and what they don’t – and this is where I can help you.


As the old saying goes, there’s no substitute for hard work – so there’s no place for gimmicks or tricks in my coaching program.

Instead, we’ll work together to improve every aspect of your social and dating skills, bit by bit, give you real-time feedback and constant iterative improvement.

It’s no exaggeration when I say that working with me will change your life. Once you finish my program you’ll be armed with incredible tools and techniques that you can use to find your dream partner and improve every aspect of your life.

Are you ready to get started and meet the woman of your life? Click here to see if you qualify for my in-person date coaching.

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Session 1- Let’s meet up

We’ll meet up in person at your favorite coffeeshop, bar, or restaurant – to make sure you’re super comfortable and relaxed. We’ll then spend around 60 minutes talking through things like your dating and relationship goals, as well as your dating history and/or experiences. We’ll use this to come up with a strategy on how to get you ‘date ready’ and I’ll issue you with some homework to do before our next session.

Session 2- Practice makes perfect

I don’t mess around, so in session 2 we’ll be diving right into the good stuff. We’ll head to a rehearsal space so we can practice some tried and tested approach techniques. We’ll work on these over and over again until you’re supremely confident in approaching and following up with women. This is the key foundation to becoming a conversation and flirtation master!

Session 3 & 4 – Let’s put it to the test

It’s time to put everything you’ve learned into practice. We’ll head out during the day ‘into the field’ to the perfect place for you to meet women. You’ll get the opportunity to approach women with your new-found skills and get real-time feedback from me (and my team) on where you can be even better next time!

Session 5- Night on the town

By now you’ll have learned a ton about how to approach and speak to women more confidently.
We’ll have ironed out a lot of the kinks, and so it’s time for you to hit the club. We’ll head to a night club or busy city bar to put your skills into action. We’ll be there alongside you to guide you as you tackle techniques like “bait and catch”, phone number
trading, advanced flirting, and date setting. You’ll also be set some more homework

Session 6 -Mock date – (Blind date with feedback)

I’m going to do you a solid and hook you up with one of my super-hot friends for a date. This is a real date, but before you get too excited, it’s just for learning purposes. You’ll go through the entire date with my friend from arranging the date and pre-date messages, through to signing off at the end of the night. She’ll provide you with written feedback at the end, so you can finetune any parts of your game that still need some attention.

Session 7- Mock date review and dating skills mastery

This is where the apprentice becomes the master. We’ll meet up at the same place you had your mock date at. We’ll go over what went well and what you could improve. We’ll also study techniques that will help you turn first dates into more dates, the fine points of flirting and seduction, and how to read her body language and appropriately escalate the way you touch her, so you become instantly irresistible. By the end of this session you’ll know everything you need to know to master the dating game and change your life.

But wait, there’s more…

And, as if all that wasn’t enough, you’ll also get 2 x 1-hour long mastermind Skype sessions with my favorite wingMAN. You see, not everyone starts out as a natural ‘ladies man’ from the moment they’re born, loads of men grow into it over time.

My favorite wingman had trouble with dating for years. He eventually sought out coaching and devoted his life to mastering the art of approaching women and dating them with confidence. In your 2 x 1-hour Skype sessions, he’ll share his secrets with you, give you tips to up your game, and help you become a huge success with women.

This really is the perfect dating coaching package, we’ve got you covered from all angles, and by the end of it you’ll be ready to take the NYC dating scene by storm and meet your dream woman.

So, what are you waiting for? Let’s do this.”


When it comes to dating, chances are you’re holding back on finding happiness because you’ve got
questions you need answers to like:

– How do I approach women without seeming like a creep?

– What can I say to get a girl’s number?

– I’ve been too busy for dating lately, how do I get back in the game?
– I never get a second date, what am I doing wrong?

– How can I meet people without apps like Tinder?

– How can I become more confident around women?

Well, stop worrying, I don’t just give you a few ‘top tips’ and send you out into the world – I’m here to help you with EVERYTHING dating related – it really is the complete dating coaching experience.

Stick with me and I’ll help you to do things like:

– Discover how to flirt confidently without feeling like a
dork or coming on too strong.

– Think about your goals for a relationship – are you ready
to meet the ‘one’ right now?

– Find the perfect meetups and singles hotspots to get you
out there and mingling

– Create a kick-ass online dating profile that women won’t be
able to resist


– Understand the strategies that’ll keep your date coming
back for more

– Dry runs, practice sessions, role-plays, and ‘in the field’
training to perfect your technique

– Learn incredible conversation techniques so you never run
out of things to say

– Advice on how to take the next steps in your new
relationships and avoid the ‘friend-zone’

– Get an expert eye on your style, so you’re all spruced
up and looking hot for your dates

– Get the inside scoop on techniques that’ll help you
approach and attract amazing women

This is just a taste of everything you can learn when you decide to master the dating game with NYC Wingwoman.

So, what are you waiting for? It’s time to look for your perfect coaching package.